Have you noticed film star's bodies? This is important
because they are in the business of attracting people to
look at them. And being attractive to other people is more
important to them than to anyone else in the world.
How many of them are overweight? And, while you're reading
through the list below notice something else about them....
Cameron Diaz: 5' 8 ½" tall,
Courtney Love: 5' 10" tall,
Gwyneth Paltrow: 5' 9½" tall,
Dennis Quaid: 6' 2" tall,
Meg Ryan: 5' 8" tall,
Ben Affleck: 6' 2½" tall,
Cate Blanchett: 5' 8½" tall,
Michael Douglas: 5' 10" tall,
Daniel Craig: 5' 11" tall,
Anjelica Huston: 5' 10" tall,
Jude Law: 5' 11" tall,
Catherine Zeta-Jones: 5' 8" tall,
George Clooney: 5' 11" tall,
Brad Pitt: 5' 11½" tall,
If you're not tall don't worry Mickey Rooney is only 5' 2"
but he's been married 8 times and has 9 children, Sammy
Davis Jr was 5' 3" and so was Mahatma Gandhi. Similarly
Kylie Minogue is only 5' 1", Christina Aguilera is 5' 2"
and Madonna is 5' 4".
So a lack of inches needn't stop you from attracting the
opposite sex. However, once again these highly attractive
people are not renowned for being overweight.
90% of leading stars are slim or well built ' very few are
fat. So a slim figure, though not ridiculously skinny,
would appear to make you attractive. If ever you needed
motivation to lose weight this is it.
Emotions are Contagious
Have you noticed how laughter is contagious. One person
gets the giggles and soon others start to giggle. That's
why comedy TV and radio shows use canned laughter.
Laughter is an outward sign of happiness; people catch
happiness from each other through the medium of laughter.
But enthusiasm is also a contagious emotion. One person who
is really enthusiastic about a project, or a game, or a
team, can enthuse a whole group.
Belief is contagious. A person who really believes in
something can make others also believe, even when there is
no concrete evidence. This is how religions work.
So, the more positively emotional you are about a subject
the more likely people are to catch your feelings on the
subject.
This works with human relationships. If you like someone,
show them, in a positive way, how you feel about them. It
is flattering to be liked. And, if you make someone feel
good, they will like you for it.
Broadcast Your Energy
People are attracted by vitality. If you think about it
this is only natural. A major purpose in looking for
another person is to mate. And when you mate you want your
genes to continue. So you would want to mate with someone
who is 'full of life'.
Energetic people are saying to the whole world, "look at
me, I am full of life, mate with me".
So being outgoing and energetic is a good way to attract
people to you. The likelihood is that you will attract
other energetic people.
This is good, because being energetic is a good way to stay
slim.
Make People Feel Welcome
If you want someone to approach you, smile.
A smile suggests that you like someone. A smile makes
people feel welcome. A smile says you are not in
"aggressive mode". So, when you smile you make it much
easier for people to approach you.
Similarly, if you smile as you approach someone they are
likely to think that you have good news for them. Thus they
are open and receptive to what you have to say.
Would You Want to be Seen with You?
Imagine if you were a member of the opposite sex, would you
want to be seen by your friends walking around with someone
who looks like you do now?
Are you good to look at?
Not everyone can be tall, elegant and beautiful, but you
can still be a person that people want to know, provided
that you're: likeable, easy to talk to, lively, energetic
and fun to be with.
It's also good to be: well behaved, to not offend people
and make everyone feel special.
You can make people like you simply by being nice to them,
not brown-nosing, just being complementary.
And you can groom yourself well to make the most of what
you've got. Or, if you don't fancy grooming, you can create
a "look" of your own, like pop stars do.
How to look your best
Work on your body so that you look healthy and full of
vitality. Eating the right foods will improve your skin and
cause added energy to flow from you. Exercise will build up
your body and give you good muscle tone. Make up your mind
to be cheerful and enthusiastic in everything you do. Your
determination and "nice nature" will draw people to you
like moths to a light.
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David Ferrers M.NLP is has been a professional Personal
Development Coach for 21 years. With his Nutritionist
Partner Susanne Floe he developed
http://GoneForeverWeightLoss.com to enable people to
discover how to use self-hypnosis to lose weight
permanently and painlessly. Both David and Susanne have
personally used the techniques they recommend to
successfully lose weight and maintain the weight loss.
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